John Farnham Alleges Former Manager Drugged Him and Exhibited Sexual Aggression for Years
In his new memoir, John Farnham reveals he was secretly drugged for years by his former manager, Darryl Sambell, who controlled various aspects of his life and career. Farnham noticed a pill in his coffee and claims Sambell manipulated him during a vulnerable time, isolating him from loved ones. The singer reflects on feelings of regret for not recognizing the deception earlier, detailing Sambell's unwanted advances and the lasting emotional impact of their relationship. Farnham ended their partnership in 1976, but the scars remain.
In a startling revelation, Australian singer John Farnham claims in his new memoir, The Voice Inside, that his former manager secretly drugged him for years during the initial phase of his career. The 75-year-old artist describes the manipulation he endured while closely controlled by Darryl Sambell.
Farnham's Disturbing Allegations Against His Former Manager
John Farnham has made shocking claims about his former manager, Darryl Sambell, alleging that Sambell secretly drugged him for years. The singer recounts that Sambell added substances to his coffee at a time when he maintained tight control over Farnham's professional and personal life. Farnham notes he was completely unaware of this manipulation, stating that he had no idea he was being drugged.
The Moment of Realization for Farnham
The alarming realization began when Farnham noticed a half-dissolved pill at the bottom of his coffee cup. When he confronted Sambell about it, he claims Sambell downplayed the issue, insisting it was merely something to help him stay awake. This manipulation occurred during a vulnerable time in Farnham's life, as he struggled to cope with the challenges of fame.
The Extent of Control Exerted by Sambell
Farnham revealed that Sambell's control extended into various aspects of his life, including dictating work schedules, song choices, clothing, and even his diet. He describes feeling isolated from family and friends, and recalls Sambell's attempts to distance him from his wife, Jill. This period of manipulation led Farnham to believe that his successes were solely due to Sambell's influence.
Deep Regrets and Self-Blame
Reflecting on the years of deception, Farnham expressed profound regret and self-blame for not recognizing the situation sooner. He admits feeling ashamed for not standing up to Sambell and acknowledges that his youth and insecurities contributed to his blindness to the manipulation.
Unwanted Advances While Under Sambell's Control
The memoir also illustrates the unwanted advances Sambell made towards him, characterized by aggressive sexual behavior. Farnham recounts that he repeatedly rejected Sambell, leading to an escalation of jealousy and control from his manager. Eventually, Farnham severed ties with Sambell in 1976, concluding a decade of professional association.
Lingering Emotional Scars After the Relationship
Despite the passage of many years, Farnham admits that the emotional consequences of this tumultuous relationship linger. He has found it challenging to come to terms with his experiences, but now, with a sense of sorrow, he reflects on that time with annoyance at his own gullibility. Darryl Sambell passed away in 2001.